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- One year ago: Coconut Cloud Fruit Dip
- Two years ago: Key Lime Pie Cheesecake with Sky-High Meringue
- Three years ago: Brie En Croute with Figs & Rosemary
- Four years ago: Quick Rosemary, Fig, and Goat Cheese Tarts
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